和聋哑爸爸一起抗癌的点点滴滴－－4年 2012.1.2爸爸睡梦中离开，享年68岁

手捧阳光

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font color="#1111ee"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">回到家</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我和爸爸说复查结果是稳定</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">他很高兴地说可算不用再吊瓶子化疗了</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font color="#1111ee"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">接下来我就告诉了爸妈我的计划</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">: </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">出结果前</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我就暗暗祈祷</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">只要爸爸没事</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">立马带他飞青岛散心</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">呼吸新鲜空气</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">. </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">爸妈脸上的花儿呀</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">瞬间全绽放了</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">. </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">紧接着我继续让他俩高兴一把</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">告诉了他们哥哥刚刚被中央电视台录取的好消息</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">爸爸张开已经掉了二颗前门牙的嘴笑了又笑</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman" color="#1111ee" size="4">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font color="#1111ee"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我接下来为爸爸制定的安排如下</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">:</font></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><font size="4"><font color="#1111ee"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">1.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">下周一问诊大夫</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">. </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">但愿同样告诉我是三个月后复查即可</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><font size="4"><font color="#1111ee"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">2.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">下周二带着这次的片子和报告去普祥医院找张院开中药</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">坚持一直吃下去</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><font size="4"><font color="#1111ee"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">3.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">下周四带爸妈飞青岛</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">大约一周吧</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><font size="4"><font color="#1111ee"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">4.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">回来后</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">立马督促爸爸练郭林气功</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><font size="4"><font color="#1111ee"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">5.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">一个月查一次</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">CEA, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">血糖</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">三个月后复查</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font color="#1111ee"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">大体是这些</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman" color="#1111ee" size="4">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="4"><font color="#1111ee"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">祝福所有的人吧</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">这些天来</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我看着论坛上的兄弟姐妹们的贴子</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">心里无比辛酸难过</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">掉了好多次眼泪</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">好多家属相继倒下了</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">剩下的我们苦苦在支撑着每一天的生活</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">如履薄冰</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">却不足为外人道之</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">.</font></span></font></font></p>

小元

<p>没有变化就是稳定.稳定就好.一直到永远......祝福!</p>

clf6019

<p><font face="隶书" size="4">有关你奶奶和爸爸的情况今天才得以了解,因为我事情又多又烦,故很少上你主页去,现总感觉到你家中的事情变化的确是太多和太大,人的一生总会是有那么多的坎坷,这是很自然的现象,但只要你能打起勇气来,敢于面对现实,我想最后胜利还是属于你的!祝你爸爸和奶奶早日恢复健康!也愿你心情能平静些!</font></p>

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-7-4 11:58:59编辑过]

手捧阳光

<p>一声叹息</p><p>哥哥嫂子的不小心，CT报告单被爸爸看到了－－大家都不在一处住，居然也能这样。。。守在爸爸身旁的我，只好玩命解释。</p><p>拼了所有的积蓄带爸妈出游，主要是带爸爸坐次飞机，动车，怕他以后再没有这样的机会或精力了，结果才二天妈妈就生我气，愤然拎包打道回府，因为在青岛吃饭物价不菲，她以为我不心疼么？？？</p><p>家人一次次的拆台</p><p>奶奶又几次被医院搞成病危，放下爸爸又要往医院跑看奶奶，现在这过的是什么生活啊？？？？？？？？</p><p>太泄气了，实在实在是太泄气了，真的什么都不想管了。</p><p>唉，我的爸爸&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p></p><p></p><br/>

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-7-3 20:07:49编辑过]

niedan8224

<p>手捧阳光，别泄气，好好跟爸爸妈妈沟通，哪有父母会真的不理解儿女的心呢？</p><p>ps：照片里你爸爸脚下堆积的那些又白又绿的东西是什么呀？</p>

小元

<p>手捧阳光.抱抱mm不要恢心."努力.就有希望"生活就是这样...珍惜当下.加油!让我们一起努力!</p><p>又白又绿的好象是打捞上来的海藻.前两天看到青岛发生蓝藻.</p>

阿孟的妈妈

<p>手捧阳光,其实如果想来海边玩,不一定要去青岛,青岛的费用普遍很贵,给你推荐一个地方--山东的长山岛,在烟台下车,一个小时左右到蓬莱,可以先在蓬莱游一下海洋极地世界(不比青岛的差,门票120元,如果人多可以商量一下是否可以买团队票90元),蓬莱阁可游可不游,门票不便宜,但是没什么太大的意思.40分钟轮渡到长山岛,找个渔家乐住下(长岛的渔家乐有山脚下的,有海边的,有城里的,你可以根据自己的意愿,先在网上查一下,费用连吃带住40-60元/天/人,网上的费用可能会贵些,可以讲价,我们去的多了不是旺季找朋友40元/天/人),当然如果你想住的舒服一些也可以联系酒店.长岛的月亮湾、钓鱼岛、峰山、九仗崖都是很美的风景，海水很洁净，还有海边光滑的石子，去年我们还捞了一个大大的海蜇（拿回酒店让渔家大嫂给我们做的海蜇凉粉）。不要跟着旅行团去太累，长岛不算大，可以坐岛上的出租车（当然如果能自己开车去最好了），每天安排2-3个景点就好了，慢慢地逛，长岛唯一的缺陷就是沙滩不算好，但是也有。7月-9月是休鱼期可能不象平时有丰富的海鲜，但是对于内地的人，也还算丰富了，除了渔家安排的饭菜你也可以提出你的要求，比如做个稀饭、包个海菜包子什么的，你也可以去岛上的市场买来海鲜让渔家大嫂给你做，上次有个广东的游客自己去买的鲍鱼，直嚷嚷便宜）。因为是长形的小岛四面环海所以住在哪里离海边都不会很远，落潮的时候可以去赶海，也可以去海边看日出日落，不想出去也可以在院子里打麻将扑克看看电视。总之，长岛是个很适合家人朋友一起去的地方，住上3-5日，很悠闲的。</p><p>对于我们的父辈，节俭惯了，花钱多他们会很心痛的。贵的不一定是好的，让他们高兴就好，是吧？</p><p></p>

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-7-4 14:33:46编辑过]

盼奇迹

<p><strong><font face="Verdana" color="#61b713">手捧阳光： 不要放弃，要勇于面对</font></strong></p><p><strong><font face="Verdana" color="#61b713">我家里我妈妈也不知道病情，也是总拆台，生气归生气，但病还是要治的</font></strong></p><p><font size="5">我也有半个月没来了，头一阵太忙了，每天陪完爸爸，还要去单位加班到半夜一点多，总算把这一阵顶过去了，单位的事也告一段落了，爸爸这几天也开始好转了，我才有时间来这里，你爸爸现在情况怎么样？我爸爸明天再查一个肝功能，要是指标正常也开始用易瑞沙了。</font></p>