2006-2016 战战兢兢，如临深渊，稀里糊涂，活过十年，弹指一挥间，往事如云烟。

hanyi

大伯，我怎么感觉您每天需要做的事情比我们上班的都要累<br/>但是您应该是最有成就感的<br/>大伯，相信自己一定会看到明年的桃花的<br/>加油啊！<br/>

ztm1980

<p>断断续续的终于看完了老伯的经历，钦佩您的乐观和好学精神。老伯，加油！</p>

父亲病情咨询

<p>大伯，刚一口气看完整个帖子，祈祷加祝福伯伯和您的女儿！</p><p>我父亲去年8月肩部疼痛，一直当作是肌肉劳损来看，结果一个月前也查出是肺癌，还是中央型肺癌，父亲要是有您这样的心态就好了！（医生不建议手术和化疗，现在只能在家中药调理）</p><p>给他吃药和饮食调理，味道苦的不好吃的都不吃（没有告诉他病情，但是他知道很严重），我又在外地，回去待了10多天又出来了（我在外地工作），真是不放心呀！</p><p></p>

aggie

用了半个下午的时间认真看完了老伯的故事。很感动，也很佩服。虽然这些话比起老伯您所承受的身体和心灵的双重压力来说显得无足轻重，但我想您能好好地生活到现在很重要的就是你超强的求生意志，而且我们高兴的发现您的这种意志已经取得了阶段性胜利。所以加油吧，继续坚持，您和您的女儿都会继续好转的。祝福您和家人！[em07]

敏敏

太感动了,看看我们这代年轻人,跟您相比真的不知该说什么了!祝您身体能一直稳定,还有您的女儿.上天保佑好人啊!

clf6019

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font color="#ff0000"><strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;清明时节雨纷纷，路上行人欲断魂。孤坟话毕别凄凉，柳暗花明又一村。</strong></font>在此仅对那些与亲人永别了的网友表示亲切的慰问，和衷心的</span></strong><font face="Times New Roman"><strong><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: 华文细黑; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;;">哀思，</span></strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 华文细黑; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;;">只要心中有爱，人生永远是美丽的春天。并祝在死亡线上苦苦挣扎的兄弟姊妹们能战胜病魔，早日创造奇迹，愿大、小朋友自己能在挫折中保持乐观，相信未来一定是美好的。</span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></b></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">看了</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">29</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">日</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">CCTV-12</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">道德观察节目“我要活下去”的报道，使人是哭笑不得，从中视中可见跳楼，血透和妈妈推车几个感人的镜头外</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">再也看不出有什么特别的地方了。</span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">日后在互联网中浏览了有关伏雯的大部网页和帖子。能看到；网络导演徐兢在酷</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">和</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">56.com</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">网站上传的</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">75</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">秒视频；</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">小弟弟为伏雯姐姐唱首歌</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">；</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">长郡中学高一</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">班的学生给伏雯损赠的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2000</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">块</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">卖报的钱；</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;">2006</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">年国庆节前夕</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">就在二人准备领取结婚证</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">今年元旦结婚时</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">伏雯突然患上尿毒症……还有酷</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;">6</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">网友去看望她；网友们写的慰问信；还有数笔捐款等等。因为这篇报导与我的遭遇有着极其相似且不全相同之处，所以我看得很认真。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">事后我在想“中视”播出这个节目意在哪里？是在唤起民众给予她爱心救助呢？还是在为完善医改而呐喊，我不明白。要是说让中国平安老总去救他，那到是实在多了，年薪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;">6600</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">万该救活多少条生命？民生权难道是民众自己能解决的事吗？但有一点我很清础：那就是全国数万尿毒症患者，他们都在死亡线上挣扎，他们都</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">渴望能多活几年。可是这个渴望能实现吗？他们并不知道。根本就不想再活下去的也还大有人在，他们经济上再也不能支撑了。我见过我地一个边远的农村女，今年也只</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">26</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">岁，从去年</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">8</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">月开始血透，每周两次，每次</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">400</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">元（不含另外的药费），而且每次都是她年过</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">60</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">的爸爸，背她走五里地，每人再花</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">17</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">元的车费才能来血透一次，一去一来，光车马费就是</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">100</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">多元</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">/</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">次。也许你会问，他为什么不住院呢？我想你会比我更明白，且没说家中农活谁又来干？他能坚持多久？我不知道？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">我深知我女儿也渴望那一根救命稻草！可是，能行吗？要是全国的尿毒症患者都把她们的账号打到网上去求助，那么这个互联网不就变成了救助网了吗？正是因为这个原因，至今我都还没给女儿打开血透这扇铁门，我知道只要进了这扇门，你就别想再出来。现在我是在八方打听和寻找能维持她残余肾功能的方法与途径。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">从三月份起民政局发给她母子俩的低保金已经从</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">150</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">增加到了</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">220</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">。她太困难了！谁不疼爱自己的儿女。我和老伴每月已有退休金</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1900</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">元了，按理说也算很好的了，她的药费，两保费和生活费，不得不由我们给她包下来了。她多么渴望着救她一命——换肾。父女俩都是“</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">O</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">”型血，没问题。但医生不同意，他问我：是不是也要把癌症也换给她？完了，一切都完了！我在想：上帝会或许会带给我公平，但愿女儿能像我一样出现奇迹！</span></p>[em12]

阿孟的妈妈

老伯，现在已经很晚了，看你还在网上，保重身体！祝福您和您的家人！

LIUBJA

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