clf6019 发表于 2008-1-16 19:16:12

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 2.4pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-para-margin-top: .2gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .2gd; mso-para-margin-left: 0cm; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">背部和腰下部发现</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">14</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">个以上肿块</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">(</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">下</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">)<p></p></font></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 2.4pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-para-margin-top: .2gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .2gd; mso-para-margin-left: 0cm; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">第二天我看到了我的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">CT</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">报告:</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">、颅内目前未见明显异常。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">、左胸上部软组织肿块伴临近椎体及肋骨破坏。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">纵隔内多枚淋巴结增大。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">、右肺肺大泡形成。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">右肺粟粒病灶,转移<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">?</b>……当我看完这个报告后,反而心情平静得多了,评价如下</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">条正常。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">条本身在手术后就是那样。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">条与以前的没有多大差异。对于第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">条报告单上给了一个“<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">?</b>”专家都给了一个问号,而不敢肯定转移,难道我还能肯定吗?至于那十多个包块报告单上根本未提。从第二天起我便每天定期服一粒美菲康和一片氟哌腚醇(英国的一篇专业论文),每日二次止痛很好且减轻副作用,但我也只能日服一次,且不能连队服三天,否则将又呕吐,在万般无奈下,又只有回到老路上去服药。具体如下:每隔</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">小时一次,晚上</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">点(曲马多一片</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">+</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">阿米替林</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">片</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">+</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">地塞米松</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">片</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">+</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">舒乐安定</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">片);早上</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">点(曲马多</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">片</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">+</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">地塞米松</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">片);上午</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">点曲马多</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">片</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">+</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">阿米替林</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">片;下午</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">点(曲马多</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">片</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">+</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">地塞米松</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">片)。由于癌痛难忍,到</span><chsdate year="2007" month="1" day="1" islunardate="False" isrocdate="False" wst="on"></chsdate><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2007</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日</span><chsdate></chsdate><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">便把曲马多的量加到了每日</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">次每次</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">片,但效果仍然没有丝毫好转。在痛得特别利害时我就一次服两包头痛粉还可以管半把个小时(不要小看了它,吃后还可以减轻两个小时)。根据相关资料介绍,止痛药升级后降级便不起作用了,但自我感觉还是要比美菲康好点。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p>
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白菜头 发表于 2008-1-16 22:08:56

您真的太坚强了!!!!!!!!!

默默小寒 发表于 2008-1-16 23:17:45

<p>很想把您的坚强告诉爸爸让他向你学习</p><p>可又害怕让他知道您手术后还是那么那么的疼</p><p>。。。</p>

阿孟的妈妈 发表于 2008-1-17 10:41:51

<font color="6728277">我明白——死神一步一步向我在靠近了,我不但没有任何压力,除泰然处之外,在病房中还是有说有笑的安慰病友(尽管声音极度嘶哑),心情还是和以往一样<span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                        </font></span></font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';"><font color="6728277">“无所谓”。------</font>有时候我就在想,如果自己处在老伯这种情况能否做到如此坚强,答案是我做不到,尽管我也是一个乐观主义者。看了您的视频,看到精干的您、您慈祥的老伴以及您的亲人,其乐融融的一家人,那个帅小伙是您的外孙?个子很高啊,青出于蓝而胜于蓝了。家庭的和睦,家人的支持在肺ca的家庭里尤为重要。</span>

clf6019 发表于 2008-1-17 16:44:41

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 2.4pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-para-margin-top: .2gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .2gd; mso-para-margin-left: 0cm; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">“一颗生命在爬起,另一颗生命在坠</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">落</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">”</span><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">题外话</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 2.4pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-para-margin-top: .2gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .2gd; mso-para-margin-left: 0cm; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">从我的女儿</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">12</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">28</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日因患慢性肾衰住川北医学院附属医院住到今天,已是第</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">20</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">天了,至昨天的生化结果为:肌酐已经从</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">661</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">上升到了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1031.7,</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">尿素氮已为</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">33.77</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">。昨天医生通知要是不做血透将隋时会有生命危险,不然周五就得出院了。(</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">20</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">天的住院费共用了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">6000</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">多元)。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 2.4pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-para-margin-top: .2gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .2gd; mso-para-margin-left: 0cm; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我心碎了,她刚刚渡过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">45</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">个春秋,却遭遇这样的不幸,生命在旦夕中!一个下岗职工,每月靠</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">150</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">块钱低保养活着他母子俩条生命,除了有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">40</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">平米的住房外,还能拿什么去“血透”,我深知那是一条不归路(每月得化</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">6000</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">——</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">8000</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">元,除去医保的自己也不会在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2000</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">元以下)……。儿子今年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">22</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">岁,成人大专因不是读书的料,没拿到毕业文凭,为了养活他自己去了一个本不该去的歌城当差。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 2.4pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-para-margin-top: .2gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .2gd; mso-para-margin-left: 0cm; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我和老伴都是企业退休职工,现每月退休费就</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">1600</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">元,女儿病了,我收留了她母子俩,每年还要靠这钱给她交医保和养保,加上我</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2006</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年病了自己也还用了近</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">万元(这钱都是我的高中同学、我的姐妹和同事朋友支援的),我还未来得及报答他们,却又遇上了这样的不幸!</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 2.4pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-para-margin-top: .2gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .2gd; mso-para-margin-left: 0cm; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">原本他们的家庭是一个幸福的家庭,虽然困难一点,在我们老俩口补贴下,总还算是过得去,他的老公——张明(他的父母均为南充丝二厂退休)原是南充水泥制品厂的职工,</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">95</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年我给钱让他去学了大车驾驶,后便给该厂送电杆到外地,此人天性好睹,累教不改,甚至于他的父母还支持。更有甚者,还于</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">05</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年在外包二奶,为了达到离婚的目的,他们在民政局进行了协议离婚,并在协议上签订了按月给她母子俩</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">2000</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">元的所有补贴费。可是二年过去了,就只给了第一次。我很犯难,女儿看到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">20</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">多年的情份上,不忍心请求法律援助。加之他包二奶竟连离婚时分的一台</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">8T</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">大卡车都卖了,现他根本就没有给付能力,包括他的父母,连到医院看都不去看一眼,就连亲身血缘的孙子都不问一声,天下之大,却难觅这样的公婆。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 2.4pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-para-margin-top: .2gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .2gd; mso-para-margin-left: 0cm; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">像这样的事情,眼睁睁地看到一条生命从眼前消失并不在少数,“民生”何时了……我此时的心情简直就要崩溃了……我不知道何时才能从这种恐怖当中解放出来,也许是明天,也许就根本不可能了,但我还是相信旧迹终会隋着时间的流逝而淡忘。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 2.4pt 0cm; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-para-margin-top: .2gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom: .2gd; mso-para-margin-left: 0cm; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">谁能救救她?我不敢相信……</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p>
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clf6019 发表于 2008-1-17 17:55:51

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>阿孟的妈妈</i>在2008-1-17 10:41:51的发言:</b><br/><font color="#678270">我明白——死神一步一步向我在靠近了,我不但没有任何压力,除泰然处之外,在病房中还是有说有笑的安慰病友(尽管声音极度嘶哑),心情还是和以往一样<span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span></font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';"><font color="#678270">“无所谓”。------</font>有时候我就在想,如果自己处在老伯这种情况能否做到如此坚强,答案是我做不到,尽管我也是一个乐观主义者。看了您的视频,看到精干的您、您慈祥的老伴以及您的亲人,其乐融融的一家人,那个帅小伙是您的外孙?个子很高啊,青出于蓝而胜于蓝了。家庭的和睦,家人的支持在肺ca的家庭里尤为重要。</span></div><p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 你说对了,说明你是认真看了的,还有外孙的妈妈你也一定看见了(就是过奈河桥下一孬一倒的那个),就是她现在正趟在川北医学院的病床上,因为交不起血液透析费明天就得出院了,等待着她的将是?我不知道.我的外孙将怎么办?要是他的妈妈能活到春节的话,不管怎么样,我都要上传一段视频在<a href="http://www.56.com">www.56.com</a>上,作为永远的记忆!既晚年晚秋嘉陵江畔游之后,暂定名为"中年人生"(也许这个"中"应为"终")让她再最后看一下家乡美,也不忘,来了一次人生......</p>

默默小寒 发表于 2008-1-17 20:42:30

<p>老伯,您上面写的,看得我想哭,我今天已经哭了太多了。。。</p>

白菜头 发表于 2008-1-17 23:32:54

<p>老伯,您真的太勇敢了!!1</p><p>每天上来看您更新的内容几乎已经成了我最近的习惯.</p>
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