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发表于 2007-7-5 21:32:16 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式 来自: 中国上海
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">2007</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">24</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日,我失去了生命中最重要的人——我的父亲。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">父亲死于肺腺癌,享年</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">71</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">岁,从发病到去世,仅仅两个多月的时间。在这里总结一下父亲的病情及治疗过程,算是对这几个月来种种经历与心情的一个总结,希望对其他病友有些参考。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">父亲向来身体不太好,但也没什么大毛病。两三年前开始肩胛骨疼,一直以为是肩周炎,时断时续,我们也都未放在心上。今年</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月中旬,一场感冒,父亲开始感觉胸部和背部灼疼,咳嗽,一开始当作感冒治,因为前年也有类似症状打两天吊针就好了。吊了几天盐水后无好转,住进县中医院,经</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">CT</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">和</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">X</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">光检查,医生怀疑是肺结核,但不敢确定。去市里医院做</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">CT</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">复查及纤维镜检查,仍无结论,怀疑结核,但症状与结核不同。期间一直做消炎输液治疗,病情日渐加重。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我因为工作在上海,电话里听说父亲的病情不见好转,上网查了一下,感觉症状与肺癌很像,立即回家接父母来上海检查。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">7</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">号到上海胸科医院,那时才开始了解在上海看病有多难,一大早去排队,只挂到一个年轻医生的专家门诊,很草率的看了一下,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">B</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">超查胸水,说胸水很少,先做抗炎处理,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">7</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">天后再复查,开了和县医院一样的药,继续挂水。三天后父亲病情继续加重,晚上不能平卧,疼痛无法入睡。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">号,我们又跑到肺科医院开门诊,那个专家随便看了下,就说你这个病不简单,要先住院再做全面检查,先交一万元押金,而且住院部还不一定有床位。我当时感觉那个医生很不厚道,有点坑钱地味道。上网查了一下,感觉肺科医院在肺癌的诊断与治疗方面并不是很好,还是相信胸科医院的诊断实力。第二天一大早,又跑到胸科医院,终于挂了一个老医生的专家门诊,这个医生还是很负责很仔细的问诊,当即决定让我们到胸科医院的联合病房——新华地段医院住院,因为胸科医院的床位非常紧张,排队一个月未必能轮上。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">11</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日下午住进胸科医院,抽胸水化验,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">14</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日拿到化验结果,发现癌细胞,腺型。那天我正好预约了胸科医院曹毓芬教授的特需门诊,曹教授看了化验单就连连安慰我“小伙子不要着急”,我知道情况不妙。曹教授告诉我,我父亲已经是肺癌的中晚期,已无手术可能,给出了一个治疗方案:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">1.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">插管引流胸水,并予胸腔免疫调变剂。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">2.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">做脑扫描与骨扫描检查转移情况。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">3.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">根据身体情况做合身治疗,建议化疗,(因为有胸水,不能放疗)。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">回到病房,我在父亲面前强装欢笑,说没什么大问题,只是有胸水,控制住胸水就好了。那几天父亲倒恢复的很快,因为刚抽了胸水,疼痛已经消失,能吃能睡,精神状态很好。我每天下了班陪他去外面的公园散步,真希望他能一直保持这种状态。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">同时又和家人及医生商量后续的治疗方案,考虑几点,</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">第一:我和家人都不希望化疗,因为很多的例子都证明化疗效果不明显,反而加速恶化,降低病人的生活质量。我们决定采取保守治疗,中西医结合。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">第二:我们必须回老家治疗,因为在这边照顾不便,我妈在医院看护,而医院里陪床的人没有铺位,只能打地铺,而且生活也极其不便,长期下去我妈的身体可能会被拖跨。其次我父亲是退休教师,在家里可以享受医保,在上海要自费治疗,长期下去经济负担很重。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">因此我们决定出院,出院前查胸水,量很少,不能引流,做了脑</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">MRI</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">和骨</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">ECT</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">,无脑转移,无远处骨转移,胸椎骨有转移的可能。我去胸科医院金长娟医生那里开了两周的中药,就陪父亲回到县城继续住院。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">然而,回家之后,我父亲的病情迅速恶化。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">因为回家的过程中有几天未经治疗,我父亲的情绪有反复,心里怀疑我们隐瞒病情,胸水增长得很快。另外,县医院的医生知道父亲是肺癌晚期,他们对这种病没有什么经验和办法,不肯积极问诊和治疗,仍然是每天挂水消炎。导致我父亲的情绪非常急躁,认为自己的病不太严重,医生却没有积极治疗,一直吵着要转院。在这种情况下,我不得不告诉父亲他的真实病情,让他安心休养,配合治疗。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我在没有办法的情况下,只好决定用易瑞沙试试,买了一盒印度版易瑞沙,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">9</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日开始服用。然后父亲治病心切,觉得这个病剂量太小,又看了一些野广告,硬要去买广告上吹的治癌心新药“华蟾素胶囊”,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">2300</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">元一个疗程。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">然而,父亲的胸水一直没有控制住,而县医院没有插管引流的条件,也没有胸腔调变剂这些药物,只能抽水,抽了几次,越抽越多。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我在家陪了父亲一个星期,回到上海,每天电话联系。一开始,父亲还是很有信心,对我的药抱有希望,渴望发生奇迹。然而,他的身体状况却越来越差,吃不下任何硬质的食物,一吃下去或者看到就呕吐,只能面前喝点粥或者汤水。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月下旬的时候,我打电话时,他已经没有力气说话了,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">23</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日周六中午,母亲电话过来,说父亲希望我赶紧回去,他自己觉得快不行了。我和母亲及我哥哥商量了一下,觉得父亲还能挺几天,决定周一去公司请假后回家。周六晚上,父亲又让母亲来电话了,催我回去,我决定第二天就动身了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">24</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日中午,我在去火车站的路上,父亲来电话,问我到哪了,我说马上上火车了,你等我回来。然而,当天晚上,我正在火车上的时候,母亲的电话里传来的噩耗,父亲已经走了!我恨我自己为什么没有早走一天,没能见上父亲的最后一面!</span></p>
有爱,就有奇迹!
 楼主| 发表于 2007-7-5 21:32:44 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国上海
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">处理好父亲的后事,回过头来想,父亲走得太快,跟很多因素有关,如果家里条件好一点,如果我们付出更多一点,或许结果又不一样。总结以下几点:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">1.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><font size="3">&nbsp; </font></span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">县医院的治疗条件太差,医生的水平和药物、治疗设备都很落后,对癌症病人只能才取等死的消极办法,没有任何手段可以控制或缓解病情。父亲的胸水没有控制住,这可能是病情恶化的最直接因素。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">2.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><font size="3">&nbsp; </font></span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">家里的条件有限,我家里兄弟几个只有我一个人在外面工作,我也是这个家的经济支柱,如果我辞了职专门陪父亲看病,将失去经济来源,难以承受。而母亲和哥哥姐姐他们,都在农村,对于联系医院,找医生,找治疗方案等事情,他们都难以帮上忙,只能靠我出面。而这几个下来,我家人几乎每个人都瘦了十来了斤,我不忍心为了我父亲一个人把所有人拖跨,因为即便倾家荡产父亲的病也未必有好结果。因此只能让父亲在县医院治疗,再加上到后来他已呼吸困难,转院也有很大危险。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">3.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><font size="3">&nbsp; </font></span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我们对父亲的病情过于乐观,对易瑞沙的作用也过于乐观。在网上看到很多人都是晚期,过了半年,一年多任在治疗。根据我父亲</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月份的身体状况,我们都估计还能维持半年以上。而我迫于工作的压力,未能在家陪伴父亲的最后一段时光,实在是遗憾。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">4.<span style="FONT: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><font size="3">&nbsp; </font></span></font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">父亲的病情跟他的情绪有很多的关系,每每他自己怀疑或焦虑时,他的病就迅速恶化,整天整夜的疼痛,而经过我的劝导安慰,他相信自己没什么大病之后,他的精神和身体状况就回持续地保持好转,疼痛消失,面色红润,能吃能睡。因此对病人的精神支持和适当的隐瞒病情是有很大帮助的。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">父亲已经走了,我发现我们在病魔面前是多么的无奈与无助,只希望人类早日攻克癌症,使后来人免受这种痛苦。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">S</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">:我父亲还剩了半盒印度版易瑞沙没吃玩,本来想带回来捐赠的,结果在我赶回家之前就被我母亲扔掉了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">让父亲生病期间,奇迹网给了我很大的动力和勇气,这里的很多病友的孝心、爱心与奉献精神让人感动,以马内利、之之等是大家的楷模,希望大家坚持下去,相信奇迹!</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">祝奇迹网的病友及亲人们好运!</span></p>
有爱,就有奇迹!
发表于 2007-7-6 11:29:57 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国上海
<p>我默哀3分钟。</p>
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发表于 2007-7-6 11:47:31 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国天津
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有爱,就有奇迹!
发表于 2007-7-6 13:19:12 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 亚太地区
<p>即使我们最终失去了亲人,也不要自责,在生存面前只能低头。谁都无法说我们做到了百分之百的付出,但无论如何,我们必定是全力以赴了。</p>
有爱,就有奇迹!
发表于 2007-7-6 13:49:44 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国上海
<strong><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">forestgump你好,看着你的回忆能够想像你现在的悲恸,一些细节也是很相似的,仿佛也把我带回到那些忙碌疲惫却充满希望的求医问药的日子里。然而晚期癌症治疗都是充满着遗憾的,结果是我们无法改变的,能创造的只是过程的奇迹,每个家庭每个人的情况也不尽相同,很多时候是尽人事,听天命,我们量力而行问心无愧就好。</font></strong>
有爱,就有奇迹!
发表于 2007-7-6 14:03:15 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国广东广州
&nbsp; 好好珍惜身边的人!
有爱,就有奇迹!
发表于 2007-7-6 19:08:23 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国北京
<p><font size="4">每次我都不愿意进入这样的帖子,因为太沉重。</font></p><p><font size="4">每次我都最终还是进来看了帖子,因为仍然放不下。</font></p><p><font size="4">或者我们都一样,都在背负一个超越我们自身承受能力的重担,却不但放不下,还渴望能永远重担在肩。</font></p><p><font size="4">祝福楼主,祝福我们的亲人。</font></p>
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