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爸爸:下辈子我们还做父子

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发表于 2008-3-23 16:48:08 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式 来自: 中国福建厦门
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">严父刘金水悼词</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">-----</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">给最心爱的父亲</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">长子:刘捷</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>2008</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年农历元月二十一</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> 4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">:</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">00</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">农历</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">2008</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年正月</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">19</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">是我们全家人一生中最痛苦的一天,我最心爱,敬爱的父亲抛下爱妻和两个儿子西游仙天。虽然父亲的病情我早有心理准备,但爱父的突然离去,妻儿真的无法接受,今天是父亲追悼和出殡的日了,我一边守着父亲的遗体,一边含着眼泪写下父亲的悼文,表达妻儿,亲人的无限泣挽之情,并表达对前来参加父亲遗体告别的亲朋好友的谢意,有这么多人爱我爸爸相信他在天堂路上一定会走好。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">父亲出生于农历</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1957</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月初</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">7</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">,是家中七个兄弟姐妹中最小的一个,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">岁丧父,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">14</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">岁丧母,尚未成年便失去双亲,成为孤儿,在兄姐的拉扯下渡过了孤单的童年,长成高大的帅小伙,并结识了生命中的另一伴,也就是我现在慈爱,善良,纯朴,勤劳的母亲黄柿英,两人相识,相爱,相恋并于</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1980</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年结为夫妇,婚后夫妻相敬如宾,恩爱有加,婚后</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年育有</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">子,一家四口男主外,女主内,小孩听话懂事,过着虽不富裕却幸福美满,令人羡慕的生活。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">父亲是个责任感很强的男人,为了养家终日奔波在外,一有点收获的第一件事就是往家里送,记得儿时,有次父亲在其它镇有人送他</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">个螃蟹</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">,他连夜往家里送,看着妻儿有滋有味地吃着,心里甭提多高兴了。村里有什么红白喜事,他总能力所能及地多尽一份力,他人一碰到什么困难,他总是二话不说地借钱帮忙,正是由于他的责任感,正直,稳重,在大家的心目中都树立着良好的形像,加上还有贤内助,懂事起,我就一直以我的父母为骄傲。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">父亲曾从事过多种工作,由起初的在洪赖上班到自营加工生意。父亲</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1989</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年到厦门,一开始寄住在姑姑家里,干着在码头扛沙袋的工作,每个月拿着二百多块的工资,记得那年春节,爸爸带着刚从厦门打工挣回的几百块钱和海鲜回家过年,一家四口吃着团圆饭,虽然已经过去</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">20</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年了,但一切是那么的熟悉,仿佛就在昨日,要是时光能倒转,什么代价我都愿意。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">爸爸凭着自已聪明的头脑和沟通能力,在厦门很快找到一份贸易公司的工作,在厦门短短的的</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年内就在</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1992</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年在厦门买了房子,十年后又买了第二套房子,一家人从老家移迁到厦门已经快</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">个年头了,爸爸曾说过他这辈子奋斗就是让我们一家住在一块,不再分开。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">2004</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">年,我大学毕业,弟弟中专毕业参加工作,爸爸也就没在工作了,我们兄弟俩商量着让爸爸妈妈从此歇歇</span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">享享清福,让儿子来养家,两个懂事的孩子工作努力,把大部的收入都交给妈妈管理,并各自结识了善良,懂事的女友,一家六口围坐在餐桌上,其乐融融计划着尽快把媳妇娶进门,传宗接代,让双亲享受天伦之</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">尽儿女孝道。每次下班后,看着母亲准备饭菜,父亲准备茶水,我由衷地想说生活是如此的美好。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">或许上天也忌妒这样幸福的一家,当医生说父亲的生命只能以月计算时,一家人哭成一团,坚强的母亲瞒着父亲寸步不离地照顾左右,几个姑姑和伯伯,特别是二伯父更是想尽了办法,虽然只有</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1%</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">的希望,我们也要尽</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">100%</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">的努,今年除夕是爸爸转到</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">174</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">医院的第二天,因为那天爸爸的精神不错,我们本想一家四口在医院和爸爸过年看晚会,因为我知道很可能这是我们全家一起的最后一年了,可爸爸却执意让我们兄弟俩回家过年,他交待要像往年一样贴好对联,围炉,还建议我们喝两杯,除夕之夜我妈扶着体弱的爸爸两个人到医院的食堂吃饭,他们也想过个年,图个吉利,正月初一我去看爸爸,他生气地问我怎么没有去给伯伯,姑姑拜年,因为他根本不知道自已的病情,我骗他说下午过去,他才心安,爸爸病重住院一个月,妈妈强忍着巨大的心理压力和悲伤,无微不致地照顾爸爸的饮食起居,一下子变老变瘦许多,看着妈妈在病床上喂爸爸,爸爸搂着妈妈腰的温馨的样子,直想此刻就此停留,爸爸曾对我说过:他这辈子最大的成就就是娶了个贤惠的好妻子,他现在一刻也</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">不开我妈妈。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">爸爸最后的日子好可怜,呕吐,恶心,无法饮食,大小便困难,视力下降,消瘦,腹部水肿,全身出虚汗,内热,最后意识模糊不清,但他胡话最多是那句“我们回家吧”。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">前天晚上八点,爸爸安然离去了,他就这样抛下妻儿勿勿走完了他年仅</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">52</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">岁的生命,我想爸爸一定是治病太痛苦了,他想解脱去天堂,因为那里没有疾病的痛苦,不用吃药,不用点滴,不用放疗,不用</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">CT</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">,不用打针,想吃什么就吃什么,想去哪就去哪,对吗?爸爸?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">爸爸,我们和妈妈都知道你解脱了,但我们真的好心痛,妈妈和您三十年恩爱夫妻如今要一个人走了,妈妈已经伤心过晕过去几次,爸爸你一定要让我们永远和妈妈在一起,爸爸你在天堂要保佑妈妈长命百岁,健康长寿。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">爸爸,捷儿和建儿今天给您送终了,我们再也听不到您的声音了,我们舍不得您,爸,您放心去吧,我会照顾好妈妈和弟弟的,努力打拼,让他们过好日子,爸,我们会经常去看您的,您也经常在梦里和我们团圆好吗?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">爸爸,您能听到我们撕心裂肺的哭泣吗?那是因为我闪将永远天人永别,我们好难受。不过,爸爸,我们会尽快振作起来,勇敢地活下去的,因为我知道这样您才能安心地走。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">爸爸,今天是我们给您送路的日子,您的妻儿祝您一路走好,幸幸福福地生活在天堂,我们永远爱您,最亲爱的爸爸。</span></p>
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发表于 2008-3-23 16:49:44 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国上海
<p>节哀顺变。</p><p>注意身体。</p>
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发表于 2008-3-23 19:56:44 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国山东菏泽
<p>节哀。</p><p>看了直流泪。</p>
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发表于 2008-3-23 20:00:26 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国浙江宁波
节哀
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发表于 2008-3-23 22:51:53 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国陕西西安
楼主,保重,似乎除了这些不知道怎么说好,但是你们幸福的生活,照顾好妈妈,应该就是对爸爸最好的交代!
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发表于 2008-3-24 00:52:15 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国上海
<p>节哀 </p><p>你们的幸福是你爸爸最大的安慰</p>
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发表于 2008-3-24 09:04:41 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国
楼主节哀
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发表于 2008-3-24 09:15:12 | 显示全部楼层 来自: 中国北京
真是让人心酸!
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