汶川地震击垮了老爸抗癌的最后一道屏障（肺腺癌）

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<font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="2"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">2008</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">7</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">日上午</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">11</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">时</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">59</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">分，老爸的心脏没有了跳动，一个素以没有任何疾病而自豪的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">73</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">岁老人却只与肺癌奋斗了半年，这么快就走了，一直奋斗到最后一刻，一直抱着希望有更高明的大夫能挽救他的生命。他自己后悔，我们全家也后悔，悔在不该让老爸看汶川地震期间的电视，尤其那三天，我们年轻人都难以忍受的精神痛苦，对一个癌症化疗期间的患者来说简直就是灭顶之灾。老爸本是个球迷，喜欢看体育频道，化疗出院后第三天正好是胃肠反映最大的时期，电视所有的频道都在演汶川，老爸没什么可看的，也情不自禁地看起来，当妈妈发现老爸大哭着给她讲汶川地震有多惨时，已经晚了，老爸开始出现各种胃肠病的症状，一向口壮最能吃的老爸开始长时间胃酸、反胃、恶心，由于以为是第三次化疗后胃肠反映大导致的，所以一直在当胃肠病来选药，但没有明显的治疗效果，持续半月后爸爸开始腿筋疼，我问他是骨头疼还是筋疼，他说是筋疼，而且一天比一天明显，由左腿逐渐发展到右腿，我害怕了，怀疑是骨转移，老爸因为胃肠不好已经在半月掉了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">10</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">多斤，如果是骨转移恐怕也不能再去做化疗和放疗了，那真要等死了。老爸开始走路摇晃，说脚下没跟，腿无力，头也晕，妈妈说他是整天在家躺着造成的，让老爸多活动，可没有用，热敷按摩都没效果。大概又挺了几天，老爸给我打电话说晚上已经疼得不能睡觉了，全身无力，我赶快去买了镇痛药，先让老爸能舒服点，又跟老爸的主治医院联系住院的事，由于需要预约所以得等几天。</span></font></font>

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-7-24 20:43:23编辑过]

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<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">这几天真难熬呀，老爸的状态每况愈下。在医生的指导下我先带老爸到医院的急诊进行常规检查，这一查不要紧，是低钾，严重的低钾，只有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">2.8</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">，正常人应在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">3.6</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">以上，老爸的症状跟低钾很吻合。滴了一瓶滴流之后老爸的腿就不疼了，我真高兴，说明应该不是骨转移，到那时我仍然不敢让老爸去做骨</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">ECT</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">，如果是，我们还有什么治疗的方案呢？各种治疗方案都需要有一个好胃，得能吃东西，可老爸这种胃肠状态已经不能再用任何有副作用的治疗方案了，我们让老爸多吃香蕉，多吃可以补钾的食物，老爸很配合，即便是平时不爱吃的玉米碴子粥也能往下咽了。第二天早上给老爸打电话，老爸说晚上腿又疼了，是靠吃止痛药挺过来的一晚。我又紧张起来，为什么会这样？我和弟弟又带着老爸去医院，一检查发现钾值跟昨天一样，没有提高，还得补！又按照常规剂量滴了一瓶（相当于</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">1.5g</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">），我要求再加量，但大夫不敢，说老年人钾补高了会死人的，我们就滴一瓶回家了，同样，老爸又是彻夜未眠，腿只止痛了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">个多小时就开始疼了。第三天，我们不再迷信大医院了，选了离家近的市级医院补钾，依然只给</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">1.5g</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">的量，而且检查结果是钾值非但没升高，还越来越低了，变成</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">2.6</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">了。老爸回去后很快就腿疼了，那一夜我也几乎没睡，上网查资料，找方法，分析原因，发现了“奇迹网”，看了整整一夜，家属和患者顽强地与癌症斗争的例子让我感动，也倍受鼓舞，虽然癌症很可怕，但一样有奇迹，家属的努力是至关重要的。第二天我决定让老爸住进最近的市级医院，以补钾为主，同时检查是否有肿瘤复发。重点医院虽然名气大，但不能为了等床位看着老爸一点点倒下。老爸这时已经几乎无力走路了，需要我们搀扶。住院后开始</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">2</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">倍量补钾（每日</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">3.0g</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">），老爸在我的引导下每天坚持吃三个香蕉，吃一块西瓜，以食物配合补钾，这时的老爸很温和听话，我给老爸打了一份食疗和吃药的单子贴在墙上便于提醒。住院第二天，老爸开始有黄痰，我有一种不祥的预感。大夫把老爸的肝胆脾肾都做彩超、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">CT</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">检查了，没有任何转移发现，而且这些脏器的功能都很好。唯独没有检查肺，大夫考虑肺只检查不到一个月，不用再查了，可最后老爸就是肺出问题了；</span>

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<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">住院第三天，老爸从开始吐黄痰到大量地吐粘痰，而且肺里听起来有水声，粘痰好像都粘在喉咙里，严重影响呼吸，老爸越来越喘的利害了，氧气泵能帮他呼吸顺畅些，我们努力找办法让老爸能咳出痰来，可那痰好像有一个快速制造的工厂，即便刚咳出来很多，可听肺里还有很多很多，这时大夫说我们得有心理准备，恐怕要准备后事了。我们不相信，为什么一个低钾会让老爸变成这样？我和弟弟不停地在走廊里转，眼泪止不住哗哗地流着，不敢回到病房，怕老爸看到。最后的这两天我们几乎都是在泪水里泡着，同时也准备好要转院。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">7</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">日老爸彻夜未眠，我们也是，我们一直在跟老爸聊天，骗老爸说等到天亮我们就转到最好的医院去治疗，已经约好了床位，让老爸睡一觉，老爸不睡，大张着嘴，眼睛大大地瞪着天花板，艰难地喘着，身上的棉被都被汗水湿透了，我知道他这是在一点点地靠体能支撑着。老爸一生生活规律，没有任何不良嗜好，当年是保送入清华大学的高才生，是我们家里的骄傲，直到发现得了肺癌之前，他还在工作，身体非常好，爬山游泳都没问题，他最后支撑的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">2</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">天也是因为身体基础好。早上</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">7</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">点多，老爸问我们什么时候转院，我说快了，等那边一上班我们就走，我知道，老爸现在这个样子已经不能再移动了，每次翻身或起来吃东西都有可能导致呼吸衰竭。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">7</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">点半的时候，老爸说“我挺不住了”，随后就大张着嘴，全身抽搐，呼吸开始慢下来。我抱着老爸的头说：爸，你是最坚强的，你是最坚强的（因为妈妈总说老爸不坚强，哪里疼了就挺不住），我们全家人死后还会葬到一起的，我们还是一家人。我大声地说着，眼泪第一次在老爸面前流出来。大夫给老爸打了一针呼吸兴奋剂，老爸慢慢缓过来，但这时已经明显不认识人了，我知道这是在慢慢地离我们而去，我帮老爸摘假牙的时候老爸非常配合，虽然我们跟他说话他好像听不见，嘴上却做出了他摘假牙时的习惯姿势，我哭着帮老爸把假牙摘下来，看着他慢慢离去。</span>

sacwjy

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"><font size="3">后来听妈说，看完汶川地震后，老爸的身体每况愈下，他自己也经常说后悔，不该看，我妈从没见我爸哭过，那是第一次。而我和弟弟一直都在自责，没有及时送老爸到医院做常规检查却在家里胡思乱想，导致老爸低钾时间过长而难以挽回，就连最后到底是因低钾死亡还是有原发灶复发而死亡也没有搞清楚。最后大夫的分析是由于我爸原来是肺腺癌淋巴和胸膜感染，最后也可能是原发灶复发，导致钾流失严重，引发肺水肿窒息，也有可能是因为情绪低落的原因导致全身免疫机能和内分泌紊乱，最后引起原发灶病变，但没有任何检查的依据，只是凭经验推断。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">如果世上有后悔药的话，我真想重来一次，不让老爸看汶川地震报道，陪他出去溜达，迅速地为老爸补钾、拍肺片，及时治疗，我相信一定能挺过这一劫的。有人说癌症反正都活不长，长痛不如短痛，到后期全身转移的更遭罪，原来我也赞同这种想法，但现在我不这么想了。世上有那么多活得好好的年轻人没事总是寻短剑，可有几个癌症晚期的人想自杀？无论多么痛苦都想多活一天，珍惜每一顿饭，每一口水，每一句话，每一次呼吸，这是活着的人无法感受的依恋。</span></font></p><font size="3"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">离奥运会已经不远了，我拿到了在网上为老爸申购的足球票，本来是全家准备陪他去看的，可老爸没有挺到这一天</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">…</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Symbol;">&frac14;</span></span></font>

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无香

看的好心酸，愿老人一路走好，楼主节哀保重！

sacwjy

<p><strong><font size="3">发这贴子也是希望能给其他家属和病人有所借鉴，我总结了几条：</font></strong></p><p><strong><font size="3">1、癌症患者的情绪很明感，要随时注意，不能疏忽大意，包括别人的语言、表情、所看的报刊、电视内容、接触的环境等；</font></strong></p><p><strong><font size="3">2、保证胃肠系统正常是至关重要的，因为所有抗癌疗法和药物都对胃肠有明显伤害，一旦胃肠倒了，既难以治疗，也容易导致全身免疫功能的崩溃，同时没了抗癌的体力；</font></strong></p><p><strong><font size="3">3、家属在病人有异常状态时不要自作主张胡思乱想，应尽快进行常规和对症检查，以免延误战机。</font></strong></p><p><strong><font size="3">4、肺腺癌术后有淋巴结肿大的患者应提高警惕，不要单纯依靠化疗，效果不明显或根本没效果。应与医生多讨论治疗方案。</font></strong></p><p><strong><font size="3">抗癌是一场斗争，是生与死的斗争，也会让活着的人更加珍惜生命！</font></strong></p>

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-7-24 21:28:02编辑过]

haofa

<p>很寶貴的經驗，謝謝！</p><p>樓主節哀，愿老人家一路走好。</p>

sacwjy

<p><font size="3">无香，刚看到你为爸爸抗癌所做的努力，真是惭愧呀，我没有那么精心过。</font></p><p><font size="3">你老爸有你保护，一定会有奇迹的，为你们全家祝福！</font></p>